Hmm. wow. I sympathize with this question. I've definitely been thinking about people being far away from me and wondering if distance means separation... I hate the thought of moving on from a friendship. I don't ever want it to happen, but is has. Not sure what to think.
I was talking to one of my friends this weekend about maintaining friendships after tour. The fact that I hardly ever get to see them, after seeing them every single day of my life for five months, is hard on me. My friend was telling me pretty much the same thing you are saying: the friendship has to be different now. But different can be better. I should stop wishing things were the way they used to be and instead be friends with them in the now. Things are different and the friendships that are meant to last will adapt and grow. Also, thanks for this video, Sunday, and for understanding.
A Year Of Questions is a project begun on March 22, 2010, by seven teens who want to be better at asking questions and articulating answers. This blog exists to make it easier to discuss these questions (because a 500 character limit on YouTube comments is rather limiting). Enjoy!
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Hmm. wow. I sympathize with this question. I've definitely been thinking about people being far away from me and wondering if distance means separation... I hate the thought of moving on from a friendship. I don't ever want it to happen, but is has. Not sure what to think.
I was talking to one of my friends this weekend about maintaining friendships after tour. The fact that I hardly ever get to see them, after seeing them every single day of my life for five months, is hard on me. My friend was telling me pretty much the same thing you are saying: the friendship has to be different now. But different can be better. I should stop wishing things were the way they used to be and instead be friends with them in the now. Things are different and the friendships that are meant to last will adapt and grow.
Also, thanks for this video, Sunday, and for understanding.
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